The last word

Look at me. Look at me.



Connie Cronley, Iron Gate executive director, with guests Tony, Margaret and Rodney (front).

1. Laurence Olivier said that when he made a stage entrance, he imagined himself carrying a pink umbrella. He thought that helped call the audience’s attention to him. That’s because actors want people to look at them when they’re on stage.

2. When television was becoming popular, white shirts created a glare, so men were asked to wear pastel dress shirts. Soon, lots of men were wearing pastel dress shirts so that other people would think that they, too, were appearing on television.

3. I like the joke about a redneck’s last words: “Hey, watch this!”

4. I hate Facebook.

What do these four things have in common?  Some vague theory I’m developing about our desperate need for attention. We are so far beyond a celebrity culture; that seems as antiquated as women in ancient Greece collecting the perspiration of famous gladiators. Or as primitive as eating the flesh of fierce warriors.

No, what we’re after now is individual celebrity. Not just 15 minutes of fame but daily, constant chattering, clamoring for attention like a 2-year-old child.

When I caved into peer pressure and signed up on Facebook, one of the first messages was from a person reporting to everybody, “I just ate a peanut butter sandwich and am going to bed.”

This stop-the-presses report cooled me forever on Facebook. Or, perhaps, it implanted the fear that I, too, would succumb to such innocuous posts. This is the opposite of a lesson I learned the hard way: Two things not to do after drinking too much wine are trim your own hair or e-mail people what you’re really thinking.

Brooding over this craving to be in the public eye led me to thinking about eye contact in general and its complexities — the different connotations, implications and plain-old misunderstandings. There’s even a polysyllabic word for the study of eye contact in nonverbal communication: oculesics.

Supposedly, when my cat looks at me and blinks slowly, it means that she loves me. But if I blink slowly at another human, it means that I’m either disinterested or sleepy. Whereas if I blink excessively, it could mean that I’m flirting, stressed or lying. Or, I suppose, all of the above.

Not making eye contact could mean lying, too, or guilt. I think of this when I’m trying to explain something to somebody and look away to gather my thoughts. “Uh, oh,” I remind myself and snap back to eye contact so sincere it’s bug-eyed. This is equally disconcerting to the other person. No wonder I find myself often misunderstood.

It’s hard work, eye contact. Looking too long at someone — akin to staring — can be rude, creepy or threatening, as in, “What are you looking at?”

Unless we smile when we look at the other person, which can be interpreted as friendly. Unless we’re in France, where smiling at someone we don’t know suggests to the reserved French that we are simpletons.

Eye contact in other cultures can mean entirely other things. In an Argentine tango club, a woman stares at a man to convey, “Ask me to dance. And I mean only dance.” Whereas in Japan, a woman who does not make eye contact can be considered polite and proper. Same thing for some traditional American Indians and for a couple of ex-cons I know.

My day job is at a soup kitchen, where I learned that homeless people say one of the most painful things about being homeless is becoming invisible. People don’t look at them. Maybe the people think they will embarrass the homeless. Maybe they’re afraid they will be asked for money. Strangers look away or even cross the street to avoid the homeless.

So I started taking photographs of the people who eat at the soup kitchen, but always with their permission. We put the pictures on the bulletin board. We print the photos in newsletters and brochures and run them in our online eNews. It’s our way of saying, “We see you. You’re a person.”

Sometimes the homeless ask for a copy of the photo to send to a mother for a holiday, to a fiancé in prison or to friends far away.

Sometimes they want the photo for themselves. Same reason we all want pictures of ourselves. It’s not look-at-me ego. The photo reminds us: I’m here.

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Opening to the public on Thursday, Nov. 16, the 110th anniversary of Oklahoma statehood, “The Art of Oklahoma” celebrates the Museum’s outstanding and...

Cost: Free with admission

Where:
Oklahoma City Museum of Art
415 Couch Dr.
Oklahoma City, OK  73102
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 ORU offers a wide variety of summer camps from basketball camp to swimming camp for all ages. For a schedule and list of options visit ORUCES.com/camps.

Cost: Prices Vary

Where:
Mabee Center
7777 S Lewis Ave
Tulsa, OK  74171
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Telephone: 918-495-6000
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Cost: $30.00 per person

Where:
Tulsa Spotlight Theater
1381 Riverside Drive
Tulsa, OK  74135
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Sponsor: Rachel Horsley
Telephone: 918-891-8334
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August 10th 7pm to 10pm  food from Trencher's Deli and fruit cobblers by Vera Grocery & Drill   Make your reservations today! 918-587-5030

Cost: $30.00 per person

Where:
Tulsa Spotlight Theater
1381 Riverside Drive
Tulsa, OK  74135
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Telephone: 918-891-8334
Contact Name: Rachel Horsley
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August 10th 7pm to 10pm  food from Trencher's Deli and fruit cobblers by Vera Grocery & Drill 

Cost: $30.00 per person

Where:
Tulsa Spotlight Theater
1381 Riverside Drive
Tulsa, OK  74135
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Telephone: 918-891-8334
Contact Name: Rachel Horsley
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Joys To The World, Inc. 3rd Summer Camp Founded in 2015, we are a 501 (c)3 volunteer-based non-profit organization based in Tulsa, OK.  Purpose: Joyfully live life! Mission: Enrich...

Cost: $30/ day, $100/week or $400/full camp

Where:
Tulsa Hills Church
840 W. 81st St.
Tulsa, OK  74132
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Sponsor: Joys To The World, Inc.
Telephone: 918-282-3191
Contact Name: Jenny Joy
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Joys To The World, Inc. 3rd Summer Camp Founded in 2015, we are a 501 (c)3 volunteer-based non-profit organization based in Tulsa, OK.  Purpose: Joyfully live life! Mission: Enrich...

Cost: $30/ day, $100/week or $400/full camp

Where:
Tulsa Hills Church
840 W. 81st St.
Tulsa, OK  74132
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Sponsor: Joys To The World, Inc.
Telephone: 918-282-3191
Contact Name: Jenny Joy
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Joys To The World, Inc. 3rd Summer Camp Founded in 2015, we are a 501 (c)3 volunteer-based non-profit organization based in Tulsa, OK.  Purpose: Joyfully live life! Mission: Enrich...

Cost: $30/ day, $100/week or $400/All 4 weeks of camp

Where:
Tulsa Hills Church
840 W. 81st St.
Tulsa, OK  74132
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Sponsor: Joys To The World, Inc.
Telephone: 918-282-3191
Contact Name: Jenny Joy
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Joys To The World, Inc. 3rd Summer Camp Founded in 2015, we are a 501 (c)3 volunteer-based non-profit organization based in Tulsa, OK.  Purpose: Joyfully live life! Mission: Enrich...

Cost: $30/ day,100/week or 400/full camp

Where:
Tulsa Hills Church
840 W. 81st St.
Tulsa, OK  74132
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Sponsor: Joys To The World, Inc.
Telephone: 918-282-3191
Contact Name: Jenny Joy
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Crossing borders are central Consuelo J. Underwood’s artistic practice. In this exhibition inspired by land, politics, and spirit, Underwood speaks to her individual understanding of borders...

Cost: Free

Where:
108 Contemporary
108 E Mathew B. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103
Tulsa, OK  74103
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Telephone: 191-889-56302

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Break the rules of conventional museums at the third annual Please Touch the Art exhibit. Mark your calendars for the opening reception Friday, June 1 from 5 - 9 p.m., in conjunction with the Tulsa...

Cost: free and open to the public

Where:
McKeon Center for Creativity
910 S. Boston Ave.
TCC Metro Campus
Tulsa, OK  74119
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Sponsor: McKeon Center for Creativity
Telephone: 918-595-7339
Contact Name: Cindy Barton

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Opera in the Ozarks, the nationally acclaimed summer music festival and training program for top emerging opera professionals, celebrates its 2018 Season from June 22 to July 20 with nearly...

Cost: $25

Where:
Inspiration Point
16311 Hwy. 62 West
Eureka Springs, AR  72632
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Become a junior marine biologist for a day and get hands-on experience caring for aquatic animals and learning what happens behind-the-scenes of an aquarium. *The program is offered for ages 12-16...

Cost: $100.00 per Child

Where:
Oklahoma Aquarium
300 Aquarium Drive
Jenks, OK  74037
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Telephone: 918-296-FISH
Contact Name: Ann Money
Website »

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Isabelle de Borchgrave: Fashioning Art from Paper features the life-size, trompe l’œil paper costumes of Belgian artist Isabelle de Borchgrave (born 1946). Following a...

Cost: $12

Where:
Oklahoma City Museum of Art
415 Couch Dr.
Oklahoma City, OK  73102
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Telephone: 405-236-3100
Website »

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Opening to the public on Thursday, Nov. 16, the 110th anniversary of Oklahoma statehood, “The Art of Oklahoma” celebrates the Museum’s outstanding and...

Cost: Free with admission

Where:
Oklahoma City Museum of Art
415 Couch Dr.
Oklahoma City, OK  73102
View map »


Website »

More information

The work of renowned artist Christopher Curtis will be featured at Tulsa Botanic Garden’s first sculpture exhibit March 17 through August 26. Curtis works primarily in stone and he often...

Cost: FREE for Garden members; $8 ages 13+, $4 ages 3-12. Kids 2 and under free

Where:
Tulsa Botanic Garden
3900 Tulsa Botanic Drive
Tulsa, OK  74127
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Sponsor: Tulsa Botanic Garden
Telephone: 918-289-0330
Contact Name: Lori Hutson
Website »

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 ORU offers a wide variety of summer camps from basketball camp to swimming camp for all ages. For a schedule and list of options visit ORUCES.com/camps.

Cost: Prices Vary

Where:
Mabee Center
7777 S Lewis Ave
Tulsa, OK  74171
View map »


Telephone: 918-495-6000
Website »

More information

Joys To The World, Inc. 3rd Summer Camp Founded in 2015, we are a 501 (c)3 volunteer-based non-profit organization based in Tulsa, OK.  Purpose: Joyfully live life! Mission: Enrich...

Cost: $30/ day, $100/week or $400/full camp

Where:
Tulsa Hills Church
840 W. 81st St.
Tulsa, OK  74132
View map »


Sponsor: Joys To The World, Inc.
Telephone: 918-282-3191
Contact Name: Jenny Joy
Website »

More information

Joys To The World, Inc. 3rd Summer Camp Founded in 2015, we are a 501 (c)3 volunteer-based non-profit organization based in Tulsa, OK.  Purpose: Joyfully live life! Mission: Enrich...

Cost: $30/ day, $100/week or $400/full camp

Where:
Tulsa Hills Church
840 W. 81st St.
Tulsa, OK  74132
View map »


Sponsor: Joys To The World, Inc.
Telephone: 918-282-3191
Contact Name: Jenny Joy
Website »

More information

Joys To The World, Inc. 3rd Summer Camp Founded in 2015, we are a 501 (c)3 volunteer-based non-profit organization based in Tulsa, OK.  Purpose: Joyfully live life! Mission: Enrich...

Cost: $30/ day, $100/week or $400/All 4 weeks of camp

Where:
Tulsa Hills Church
840 W. 81st St.
Tulsa, OK  74132
View map »


Sponsor: Joys To The World, Inc.
Telephone: 918-282-3191
Contact Name: Jenny Joy
Website »

More information

Joys To The World, Inc. 3rd Summer Camp Founded in 2015, we are a 501 (c)3 volunteer-based non-profit organization based in Tulsa, OK.  Purpose: Joyfully live life! Mission: Enrich...

Cost: $30/ day,100/week or 400/full camp

Where:
Tulsa Hills Church
840 W. 81st St.
Tulsa, OK  74132
View map »


Sponsor: Joys To The World, Inc.
Telephone: 918-282-3191
Contact Name: Jenny Joy
Website »

More information

Crossing borders are central Consuelo J. Underwood’s artistic practice. In this exhibition inspired by land, politics, and spirit, Underwood speaks to her individual understanding of borders...

Cost: Free

Where:
108 Contemporary
108 E Mathew B. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103
Tulsa, OK  74103
View map »


Telephone: 191-889-56302

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Tequila Ladies’ Night Out Thursday, July 19 $29.95 per person Plus cocktails:  $6.95 each or a flight of 4 for $25  Plus Tax & Gratuity    ...

Cost: $29.95

Where:
The Melting Pot Restaurant
300 Riverwalk Terrace
Suite 190
Jenks, OK  74037
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Sponsor: The Melting Pot of Tulsa
Telephone: 918-299-8000
Contact Name: Becky Chapman
Website »

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Break the rules of conventional museums at the third annual Please Touch the Art exhibit. Mark your calendars for the opening reception Friday, June 1 from 5 - 9 p.m., in conjunction with the Tulsa...

Cost: free and open to the public

Where:
McKeon Center for Creativity
910 S. Boston Ave.
TCC Metro Campus
Tulsa, OK  74119
View map »


Sponsor: McKeon Center for Creativity
Telephone: 918-595-7339
Contact Name: Cindy Barton

More information

Opera in the Ozarks, the nationally acclaimed summer music festival and training program for top emerging opera professionals, celebrates its 2018 Season from June 22 to July 20 with nearly...

Cost: $25

Where:
Inspiration Point
16311 Hwy. 62 West
Eureka Springs, AR  72632
View map »

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The League of Women Voters of Metropolitan Tulsa is hosting candidate forums for four Tulsa City Council races, ahead of the Aug. 28 election. Each forum has a Facebook event page with more...

Cost: Free

Where:
Tulsa Technology Center
3850 N. Peoria Ave.
Tulsa, OK


Sponsor: League of Women Voters Metropolitan Tulsa
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Become a junior marine biologist for a day and get hands-on experience caring for aquatic animals and learning what happens behind-the-scenes of an aquarium. *The program is offered for ages 12-16...

Cost: $100.00 per Child

Where:
Oklahoma Aquarium
300 Aquarium Drive
Jenks, OK  74037
View map »


Telephone: 918-296-FISH
Contact Name: Ann Money
Website »

More information

The work of renowned artist Christopher Curtis will be featured at Tulsa Botanic Garden’s first sculpture exhibit March 17 through August 26. Curtis works primarily in stone and he often...

Cost: FREE for Garden members; $8 ages 13+, $4 ages 3-12. Kids 2 and under free

Where:
Tulsa Botanic Garden
3900 Tulsa Botanic Drive
Tulsa, OK  74127
View map »


Sponsor: Tulsa Botanic Garden
Telephone: 918-289-0330
Contact Name: Lori Hutson
Website »

More information

Isabelle de Borchgrave: Fashioning Art from Paper features the life-size, trompe l’œil paper costumes of Belgian artist Isabelle de Borchgrave (born 1946). Following a...

Cost: $12

Where:
Oklahoma City Museum of Art
415 Couch Dr.
Oklahoma City, OK  73102
View map »


Telephone: 405-236-3100
Website »

More information

Opening to the public on Thursday, Nov. 16, the 110th anniversary of Oklahoma statehood, “The Art of Oklahoma” celebrates the Museum’s outstanding and...

Cost: Free with admission

Where:
Oklahoma City Museum of Art
415 Couch Dr.
Oklahoma City, OK  73102
View map »


Website »

More information

 ORU offers a wide variety of summer camps from basketball camp to swimming camp for all ages. For a schedule and list of options visit ORUCES.com/camps.

Cost: Prices Vary

Where:
Mabee Center
7777 S Lewis Ave
Tulsa, OK  74171
View map »


Telephone: 918-495-6000
Website »

More information

Crossing borders are central Consuelo J. Underwood’s artistic practice. In this exhibition inspired by land, politics, and spirit, Underwood speaks to her individual understanding of borders...

Cost: Free

Where:
108 Contemporary
108 E Mathew B. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103
Tulsa, OK  74103
View map »


Telephone: 191-889-56302

More information

Break the rules of conventional museums at the third annual Please Touch the Art exhibit. Mark your calendars for the opening reception Friday, June 1 from 5 - 9 p.m., in conjunction with the Tulsa...

Cost: free and open to the public

Where:
McKeon Center for Creativity
910 S. Boston Ave.
TCC Metro Campus
Tulsa, OK  74119
View map »


Sponsor: McKeon Center for Creativity
Telephone: 918-595-7339
Contact Name: Cindy Barton

More information

Escaping The Ordinary Vol. 4 Compilation Release Show at The Vanguard. For more information on ETO, visit escapingtheordinary.net/events/ Hosted by: Ty Griffin of Escaping The Ordinary and Joey...

Cost: Free

Where:
The Vanguard
222 North Main Street
Tulsa, OK  74103
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There are so many cool places to spend the night in the Oklahoma Aquarium beyond our shark tunnel, so we’ve expanded our popular Sleep with the Sharks events to include all kinds of ZZZs in...

Cost: Contact for pricing

Where:
Oklahoma Aquarium
300 Aquarium Drive
Jenks, OK  74037
View map »


Telephone: 918-296-3474
Contact Name: Kara Lovell
Website »

More information

Opera in the Ozarks, the nationally acclaimed summer music festival and training program for top emerging opera professionals, celebrates its 2018 Season from June 22 to July 20 with nearly...

Cost: $25

Where:
Inspiration Point
16311 Hwy. 62 West
Eureka Springs, AR  72632
View map »

More information

Show More...
Show Less...

Become a junior marine biologist for a day and get hands-on experience caring for aquatic animals and learning what happens behind-the-scenes of an aquarium. *The program is offered for ages 12-16...

Cost: $100.00 per Child

Where:
Oklahoma Aquarium
300 Aquarium Drive
Jenks, OK  74037
View map »


Telephone: 918-296-FISH
Contact Name: Ann Money
Website »

More information

Isabelle de Borchgrave: Fashioning Art from Paper features the life-size, trompe l’œil paper costumes of Belgian artist Isabelle de Borchgrave (born 1946). Following a...

Cost: $12

Where:
Oklahoma City Museum of Art
415 Couch Dr.
Oklahoma City, OK  73102
View map »


Telephone: 405-236-3100
Website »

More information

Opening to the public on Thursday, Nov. 16, the 110th anniversary of Oklahoma statehood, “The Art of Oklahoma” celebrates the Museum’s outstanding and...

Cost: Free with admission

Where:
Oklahoma City Museum of Art
415 Couch Dr.
Oklahoma City, OK  73102
View map »


Website »

More information

The work of renowned artist Christopher Curtis will be featured at Tulsa Botanic Garden’s first sculpture exhibit March 17 through August 26. Curtis works primarily in stone and he often...

Cost: FREE for Garden members; $8 ages 13+, $4 ages 3-12. Kids 2 and under free

Where:
Tulsa Botanic Garden
3900 Tulsa Botanic Drive
Tulsa, OK  74127
View map »


Sponsor: Tulsa Botanic Garden
Telephone: 918-289-0330
Contact Name: Lori Hutson
Website »

More information

 ORU offers a wide variety of summer camps from basketball camp to swimming camp for all ages. For a schedule and list of options visit ORUCES.com/camps.

Cost: Prices Vary

Where:
Mabee Center
7777 S Lewis Ave
Tulsa, OK  74171
View map »


Telephone: 918-495-6000
Website »

More information

Cost: $30.00 per person

Where:
Tulsa Spotlight Theater
1381 Riverside Drive
Tulsa, OK  74135
View map »


Sponsor: Rachel Horsley
Telephone: 918-891-8334
Website »

More information

August 10th 7pm to 10pm  food from Trencher's Deli and fruit cobblers by Vera Grocery & Drill   Make your reservations today! 918-587-5030

Cost: $30.00 per person

Where:
Tulsa Spotlight Theater
1381 Riverside Drive
Tulsa, OK  74135
View map »


Telephone: 918-891-8334
Contact Name: Rachel Horsley
Website »

More information

August 10th 7pm to 10pm  food from Trencher's Deli and fruit cobblers by Vera Grocery & Drill 

Cost: $30.00 per person

Where:
Tulsa Spotlight Theater
1381 Riverside Drive
Tulsa, OK  74135
View map »


Telephone: 918-891-8334
Contact Name: Rachel Horsley
Website »

More information

Crossing borders are central Consuelo J. Underwood’s artistic practice. In this exhibition inspired by land, politics, and spirit, Underwood speaks to her individual understanding of borders...

Cost: Free

Where:
108 Contemporary
108 E Mathew B. Brady St, Tulsa, OK 74103
Tulsa, OK  74103
View map »


Telephone: 191-889-56302

More information

Break the rules of conventional museums at the third annual Please Touch the Art exhibit. Mark your calendars for the opening reception Friday, June 1 from 5 - 9 p.m., in conjunction with the Tulsa...

Cost: free and open to the public

Where:
McKeon Center for Creativity
910 S. Boston Ave.
TCC Metro Campus
Tulsa, OK  74119
View map »


Sponsor: McKeon Center for Creativity
Telephone: 918-595-7339
Contact Name: Cindy Barton

More information

  RSVP is excited to announce our annual gala!  Join us for a rousing evening, filled with memories of the wild, wild west! During the night, be prepared to dine on delicious...

Cost: $125 per ticket

Where:
River Spirit Casino and Resort
8330 Riverside Pkwy
Tulsa, OK  74137
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Telephone: 918-280-8656
Contact Name: Annette Poston
Website »

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The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS) hosts a Swing dance and lessons  The Oklahoma Swing Syndicate (TOSS) is the only UNESCO recognized dance organization in Oklahoma.  We are a 501c3...

Cost: $7

Where:
Community Center - South Minister Presby Church
3500 So Peoria
1/2 west of Peoria, on 35pl behind the church
Tulsa, OK  74102
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Sponsor: The Ok Swing Syndicate
Telephone: 918-450-691
Contact Name: Rita Robbins
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Come join us for a special evening of hilarity at Camp “Spon-Ta-Ni-Acs!”  Forget the calamine lotion and sunscreen!  Our indoor campground is air conditioned, and the only...

Cost: $8.00

Where:
pH Community House
306 S Phoenix Ave
Tulsa, OK  74127
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Sponsor: The Spontaniacs!
Telephone: 918-521-9345
Contact Name: Eric Peterson
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Roy Lee NYC street photography on display

Liggett Studio will host the local photographer's solo exhibition, “42nd Street: Grime, Glamour, and Glory,” July 13-August 4.

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Video: Auburn Cord Duesenberg Co.

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July 2018 Charitable Events

Celebrate summer, have a great time and support worthy causes at these fundraisers and events.

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Church Studio Visionary Buys Harwelden Mansion

Businesswoman Teresa Knox is building quite the collection of historical properties. Harwelden is her latest acquisition.

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Circle Cinema Celebrates 90 Years

July 7-15: Expect new documentaries and features, silent classics, special guests, discussions with filmmakers, a reel-to-reel 35mm screening and much more at Circle Cinema Film Festival.

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