The demands of dementia

Fighting fear with education and compassion



The Virtual Dementia Tour puts a person in the shoes of someone with dementia. The immersive experience alters one’s senses and is intended to help one better understand the condition and build empathy. Senior Star hosts regularly scheduled Virtual Dementia Tours each month.

Courtesy Senior Star

 

Mention the words Alzheimer’s or dementia, and fear is often the first reaction. The loss of lifetime memories and decline of mental faculties is something no one wants to experience.

Unfortunately, as many as 5.8 million Americans and as many as 6,500 Tulsans are afflicted with Alzheimer’s disease or another form of dementia, according to the Alzheimer’s Association. Few know that Alzheimer’s is America’s sixth-leading cause of death and kills more than breast and prostate cancers combined, according to the Alzheimer’s Association.

Understanding and empathy are vital to helping those suffering with Alzheimer’s, as well as for aiding stressed-out caregivers. That’s why Tulsa-based Senior Star, which operates two Tulsa residential assisted living facilities for seniors, offers monthly Virtual Dementia Tours.

These tours put you in the shoes of a person with dementia, while helping you better understand their condition and building empathy.

Shondel Bennett, executive director of Senior Star’s Burgundy Place location, oversees 120 residents aged 55 to 103. An estimated 40% of these individuals are in some stage of Alzheimer’s or dementia. Burgundy Place holds a Virtual Dementia Tour the last Tuesday of each month. The entire program lasts about 90 minutes, though the experiential part is brief but intense.

“It’s a fully immersive experience that actually alters your senses that we follow with a debrief so people can talk about it,” Bennett says. “It helps you to understand the behaviors of people with dementia that those of us with healthy cognitive function can find so frustrating.”

Elements of the tour include experiencing hearing and visual deficits along with physical impediments. Participants are given instructions they can’t fully hear or comprehend.

To have your eyes — and your heart — opened to the plight of those with dementia, you can schedule a free Virtual Dementia Tour at either Senior Star location. Call Burgundy Place at 918-299-0953 to reserve a spot at its June 25 demonstration; call 918-250-3631 for a reservation at Woodland Terrace’s June 20 demonstration; or check out Senior Star on Facebook.

Warning signs

Where are my car keys? What’s that cell number again? That name is on the tip of my tongue!

All of us can have moments like these — whether we’re 23 or 83.

However, there’s a big difference between these episodes and actual Alzheimer’s disease or dementia.

“Everyone may experience forgetfulness from time to time,” says Heather Duvall, director of programs for the Oklahoma Chapter of the Alzheimer’s Association, “but Alzheimer’s disease is a brain disorder that really begins to disrupt daily life.”

Alzheimer’s can creep up slowly, with the brain undergoing changes up to 20 years before any significant cognitive impairment manifests. After its symptoms become apparent, the disease might progress for four to 20 years before death occurs.

According to Duvall, some telltale signs someone with Alzheimer’s might have include:

  • Forgetting important dates and events
  • Asking the same thing repeatedly
  • Taking notes and leaving notes as reminders
  • Difficulty planning and solving common problems that once were easy
  • Confusion and growing inability to complete everyday tasks.

“Early, accurate detection will allow people in the early stages of the disease to start planning and making decisions,” Duvall says. “That way, a patient’s wishes can be carried out and their quality of life can be improved. Caregivers don’t have to guess.”

Broaching the topic with an undiagnosed loved one can be tricky, but it’s critical, Duvall explains. People in the early stages of the disease might be aware of their difficulties and are often feeling anxious and fearful, and this can lead to denial. Be gentle, she says.

“You might start a conversation like, ‘Mom, I feel like you’ve been more forgetful lately. Do you feel like you are?’ And then you might point out some of the specific things you see going on.”

After having that conversation, take your loved one to a doctor for a cognitive assessment. If a diagnosis of Alzheimer’s or dementia is made, get in touch with the Alzheimer’s Association.

“It’s a devastating diagnosis, but we can help provide you with the support and resources to help you navigate through the journey of this disease,” she adds.

You can learn more from alz.org and its 24-hour helpline, 1-800-272-3900.

 

The unsung heroes

Megan Linn describes her mother’s descent into the abyss of Alzheimer’s disease as a nightmare. Her mother, Connie, 72, was once a vibrant, outspoken, tenacious and independent woman, who made her career as a college professor.

About five years ago, the family began to notice significant changes, though upon reflection, subtle signs of the disease had been there for a decade prior. By the time of Connie’s diagnosis, she was in the full-blown stages of Alzheimer’s and needed 24-hour care.

“It’s a nightmare beyond what you can imagine,” Linn says. “You mourn for what you’ve lost and what you won’t have.”

Suddenly, the family, and particularly her father, was thrust into a role they never anticipated.

Ironically, perhaps, it is the caregivers who are too often forgotten in the story of Alzheimer’s disease and dementia.

It is the wives, the husbands, children and friends who end up caring for the patient, bearing a huge burden —  at great personal and even professional cost. Jobs can be lost, careers derailed and blissful, relaxed retirement years might turn into a long, heartbreaking slog.

They are the unsung heroes in the battle against Alzheimer’s. According to the Alzheimer’s Association, more than 16 million Americans are providing unpaid care to people with Alzheimer’s or other dementias at an estimated value of $234 billion. In Oklahoma, 224,000-plus are serving as unpaid caregivers at an estimated value of $3.2 billion. Typically, it takes three people to provide care for just one person with Alzheimer’s.

Susan Dornblaser, a volunteer trainer who educates the public about Alzheimer’s, struggled as a caregiver for her mother, who passed away from the disease in 2010. Her father, also a primary caregiver, died 10 weeks prior to his wife of vascular dementia brought on by the stress of caring for his ailing wife.

Frequently, caregivers end up overlooked and marginalized as caring for a loved one takes over their lives, she says. In her case, she had to end a 30-year practice as a communications consultant.

“I closed the doors of my PR practice,” she says. “People don’t think about how caregiving impacts the careers of people. We need to educate employers so they can understand.”

Employees who find themselves in that situation are far more likely to be tardy, leave work early, request leaves of absence, turn down promotions and even quit their jobs.

Linn says that there have been silver linings. She credits the care her mother now receives at Inverness Village retirement center, as well as the support the family continues to get through the Alzheimer’s Association, which she calls a “lifesaver.”

“Don’t be afraid to let other people in on your journey,” she says. “Our family was pretty private, and we didn’t want to burden anyone, but accepting help from others has been incredible. Strangers have now become our extended family.

“To help my mom, we had to have people helping us,” she says. “It has saved us.”

 

On the horizon

Alzheimer’s has no cure, but there are promising therapies on the horizon for sufferers.

Although most existing trials focus on earlier stages of the disease, one new therapy — if successful — will focus on improving quality of life for those already diagnosed with and experiencing the effects of Alzheimer’s.

Called troriluzole, the drug is undergoing clinical trials at 40 sites across the U.S., including in Tulsa through Tulsa Clinical Research.

“This is for people experiencing mild to moderate symptoms of Alzheimer’s,” says Christy Lisenbee, operations manager and certified clinical research coordinator for Tulsa Clinical Research. “There have not been many studies or therapies for this group, which is already using available treatments.”

The study, formally called T2ProtectAD, is open for those age 50-85 with an Alzheimer’s diagnosis. It is a 48-week trial that requires 10 clinical visits, the first one being a clinical eligibility assessment. There is no cost to the patient for participating.

Biohaven, a New Haven, Connecticut-based pharmaceutical company, has developed troriuzole, which it hopes will protect against and slow down memory loss and even improve memory and thinking problems. The drug aims to regulate a vital brain chemical called glutamate.

“What troriuzole does is it makes glutamate levels in the brain normal, which allows nerve cells to communicate more effectively with each other,” says Dr. Irfan Qureshi, executive director of neurology at Biohaven. “It is a promising investigational treatment for neurodegenerative diseases, including Alzheimer’s.”

Qureshi warns this is not a cure, but animal trials showed significant promise. They are hoping it shows the same impact in humans.

If you are interested in participating in the study, call Tulsa Clinical Research at 918-743-2349, ext. 106, or visit t2protectad.org.

On Aug. 6, Montereau will host “Know the 10 Signs: Early Detection Matters” in conjunction with the Alzheimer’s Association. The presentation will include how to identify the 10 warning signs, hearing from people with the disease, and how to recognize the signs in yourself and others. More information at montereau.net.

 

What is Alzheimer’s?

“Alzheimer’s is the most common form of dementia and causes actual physical changes to the brain,” says Jessica Vagin, Montereau memory care program manager. “The brain becomes smaller and shriveled. Alzheimer’s causes problems with thinking abilities, behaviors and an individual’s memory. This is a progressive disease that becomes severe enough to affect daily life, and it is terminal. Alzheimer’s accounts for 60-80% of all dementia cases.”

 

Are there different forms of dementia?

Dementia is an umbrella term used to describe the loss of memory and other thinking skills, Vagin says. There are 200-plus forms of dementia.

 

Mayor G.T. Bynum recognizes the Tulsa Fire Department for its participation in Dementia Friendly Tulsa training. // Courtesy Susan Dornblaser

Tulsa named Dementia Friendly City

With baby boomers arriving en masse into their golden years and joining millions of Americans already there, Alzheimer’s and dementia awareness has never been more important.

That’s why Tulsa became a Dementia Friendly City two years ago as part of the Dementia Friendly America Network. Being a Dementia Friendly City means city government departments, first responders and other civic organizations ranging from churches and nonprofits to businesses are trained or are receiving training about Alzheimer’s/dementia, their impacts and how to deal with these conditions.

“The purpose of the training is to change social attitudes and stigmas so the public knows how to engage those with cognitive impairment,” says
Susan Dornblaser, a volunteer trainer with Dementia Friendly Tulsa. “We want people with dementia to stay engaged in the community as long as possible.”

The free training is open to any interested group. To schedule a training, call 918-596-7411 from 8 a.m.-5 p.m., Monday-Friday.

 

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Buy a Care Card and save up to 20% at more than 200 local stores and restaurants October 25 – November 3, 2018. With Care Card, you’re saving more than money – you’re saving lives....

Cost: $60

Where:
Tulsa, OK


Sponsor: Family & Children's Services
Telephone: 918-560-1115
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Mark your calendar ro the best BBQ Cook-off in Tulsa! Badges 'N' BBQ will be held on Friday, October 25 at Christiansen Jet Center, located at the Jones Riverside Airport. Party goers...

Cost: $75.00

Where:
Christiansen Jet Center
200 Lear Jet Lane, Jones Riverside Airport
Tulsa , OK
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Sponsor: Crime Prevention Network
Telephone: 918-585-5209
Contact Name: Karen Gilbert
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Abersons presents Pink Ribbon -- an exclusive, high-fashion fundraiser featuring a runway show by one of the world's hottest designers. Cocktails 6 p.m. | Dinner & Live Auction 7...

Cost: $1,250

Where:
Southern Hills Country Club
2636 E. 61st St.
Tulsa, OK  74136
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Sponsor: Abersons
Telephone: 918-834-7200
Contact Name: Scarlet Henley
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Go into the woods and experience the return of this fantastic family production with performances in both Tulsa and Broken Arrow. Tulsa Ballet's Hardesty Family Foundation Children's...

Cost: $15

Where:
Studio K (Tulsa) and Zarrow Studio (Broken Arrow(
1212 E 45th Place
Tulsa, OK  74105
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Sponsor: Tulsa Ballet
Telephone: 918-749-6006
Contact Name: Dan
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Parents! Have a date night October 25th!!! Send the kiddos to us for a fun evening - Monster Mash Bash! This fundraiser benefits Tulsa Dance Company Ensemble’s cultural exchange & tour to...

Cost: 25.00

Where:
Tulsa Dance Company
8207 S. Harvard Ave.
Tulsa, OK  74137
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Sponsor: Tulsa Dance Company
Telephone: 918-779-7360
Contact Name: Tulsa Dance Company
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For the first time, the Oklahoma Aquarium will host seven nights of indoor trick-or-treating for kids of all ages from Friday, October 25 to Thursday, October 31! Guests can follow the...

Cost: Varies

Where:
Oklahoma Aquarium
300 Aquarium Drive
Jenks, OK  74107
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Sponsor: Oklahoma Aquarium
Telephone: 918-528-1507
Contact Name: Liz Medrano
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Originally from West Africa, Kizomba is a partner dance that is a sexy addition to any Latin dance party. It is the fastest Latin growing dance in the U.S. Come and learn the basics plus a few more...

Cost: 109

Where:
THE DANCE PLACE
3310 WEST 42ND PLACE
TULSA, OK  74107
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Telephone: 918-813-6514
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No tricks, just treats! Gathering Place is casting a spell for all not-so-scary ghosts and ghouls to make their way to the park for sweets and treats. Meet us on Spooky Street for a kid-friendly,...

Cost: Free

Where:
Gathering Place
2650 S. John Williams Way E.
Tulsa, OK  74114
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Seymour, a nerdy worker at a run-down florist is romantically pining for a seemingly unattainable beauty named Audrey, when he discovers an unusual plant that only thrives when it is fed human...

Cost: $15-$25

Where:
Tulsa Performing Arts Center
110 East Second Street
Tulsa, OK  74103
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Sponsor: Tulsa Project Theatre
Telephone: 918-596-7122
Contact Name: Amber Whitlatch
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The annual US National Arabian & Half Arabian Horse Show returns to Tulsa. You will be able to see over 1700 Arabian and Half Arabian horses competing in many divisions, including Breeding/In Hand...

Cost: 0.00

Where:
Tulsa State Fairgrounds
4145 E 21st St,
Tulsa, OK  74114
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Sponsor: Arabian Horse Association
Telephone: 303-6964500
Contact Name: Kelsey Berglund
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The Tulsa Walk to Defeat ALS is the signature fundraising event for The ALS Association Oklahoma. The Walk to Defeat ALS is the #1 way to unite and fundraise for those living with ALS. Each...

Cost: Free

Where:
Guthrie Green
111 East M.B. Brady Street
Tulsa, OK  74103
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Telephone: 202-464-8617

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Together OSU Medicine and OSU Medical Center have built a fully comprehensive health care team to serve families in Tulsa and the surrounding areas. One of those levels of expertise is...

Cost: Free

Where:
OSU Medical Center North Lobby
744 W. Ninth St.
Tulsa, OK
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Sponsor: OSU Medicine

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 Harvest Hayday!  October 26, from 11am - 2pm.  Come celebrate the arrival of fall!  With hayrides, games, trunk or treating, emergency vehicles, a petting zoo, and more, ...

Cost: Free, except food items for purchase from Food Trucks

Where:
Asbury UMC
6767 S. Mingo Rd
Tulsa, OK  74133
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Sponsor: Asbury UMC
Telephone: 918-392-1165
Contact Name: Kim Broadhurst
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Hello, Friends!   Fall is in the air! We are excited to present the 5th Annual Hugo Pumpkin Festival, a fun-filled event featuring a variety of entertaining activities for the whole family....

Cost: $ 6 - $ 20

Where:
Endangered Ark Foundation
2657 E 2070 Rd
Hugo, OK  74743
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Sponsor: Endangered Ark Foundation
Telephone: 580-317-8470
Contact Name: Emily
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Outdoor All Day Family Friendly Halloween Event 

Cost: $0-$10.00

Where:
Downtown Wagoner
Main Street
Wagoner
Wagoner, OK  74467
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Sponsor: Wagoner Main Street
Telephone: 918-577-1772
Contact Name: Samantha Call
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Buy a Care Card and save up to 20% at more than 200 local stores and restaurants October 25 – November 3, 2018. With Care Card, you’re saving more than money – you’re saving lives....

Cost: $60

Where:
Tulsa, OK


Sponsor: Family & Children's Services
Telephone: 918-560-1115
Website »

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Abersons presents Pink Ribbon -- an exclusive, high-fashion fundraiser featuring a runway show by one of the world's hottest designers. Cocktails 6 p.m. | Dinner & Live Auction 7...

Cost: $1,250

Where:
Southern Hills Country Club
2636 E. 61st St.
Tulsa, OK  74136
View map »


Sponsor: Abersons
Telephone: 918-834-7200
Contact Name: Scarlet Henley
Website »

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Go into the woods and experience the return of this fantastic family production with performances in both Tulsa and Broken Arrow. Tulsa Ballet's Hardesty Family Foundation Children's...

Cost: $15

Where:
Studio K (Tulsa) and Zarrow Studio (Broken Arrow(
1212 E 45th Place
Tulsa, OK  74105
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Sponsor: Tulsa Ballet
Telephone: 918-749-6006
Contact Name: Dan
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America’s LARGEST interactive comedy murder mystery dinner show is now playing at the Hilton Garden Inn Tulsa Broken Arrow! At The Dinner Detective, you’ll tackle a challenging crime while you...

Cost: 59.95

Where:
Hilton Garden Inn Tulsa- Broken Arrow
420 W Albany St.
Broken Arrow, OK  74012
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Telephone: 866-496-0535
Contact Name: The Dinner Detective
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Mummies of all ages! Bring your goblins, witches, and super heroes to our fun and food filled Halloween Dance! Saturday, October 26th, 2019 6-9 pm $5 per person (check or cash)  

Cost: $5 per person

Where:
Bixby Community Center
211 N Cabaniss Ave
Bixby , OK  74008
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Sponsor: Bixby Community Center
Telephone: 918-366-4841
Contact Name: Victoria Smith

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For the first time, the Oklahoma Aquarium will host seven nights of indoor trick-or-treating for kids of all ages from Friday, October 25 to Thursday, October 31! Guests can follow the...

Cost: Varies

Where:
Oklahoma Aquarium
300 Aquarium Drive
Jenks, OK  74107
View map »


Sponsor: Oklahoma Aquarium
Telephone: 918-528-1507
Contact Name: Liz Medrano
Website »

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Originally from West Africa, Kizomba is a partner dance that is a sexy addition to any Latin dance party. It is the fastest Latin growing dance in the U.S. Come and learn the basics plus a few more...

Cost: 109

Where:
THE DANCE PLACE
3310 WEST 42ND PLACE
TULSA, OK  74107
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Telephone: 918-813-6514
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Tulsa Metro Sound Chorus presents: "As Seen on TMS". A comedic review which will keep you in stitches, including music of Iconic Women of Song . Come enjoy the music of Karen Carpenter,...

Cost: 15.00

Where:
Memorial High School
5840 S Hudson Ave,
Tulsa, OK  74135
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Sponsor: Tulsa Metro Sound
Telephone: 918-352-6091
Contact Name: Marlys Fallen
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Choral Music from North America, South America, Europe, Asia, Africa, and Down Under

Cost: $20

Where:
Cascia Hall
2520 S Yorktown Ave
Tulsa, OK  74114
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Sponsor: Tulsa Chorale
Telephone: 918-625-1527
Contact Name: Anastasia Howard
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Are you looking for a night of Halloween hilarity, ghoulish guffaws, and spooky silliness? Then come and see the spirited stylings of Laughing Matter… Oklahoma’s longest-running...

Cost: $8.00 ($4.00 for children under 12)

Where:
pH Community House
306 S Phoenix Ave
Tulsa, OK  74127
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Sponsor: Laughing Matter Improv
Contact Name: Jerry Henderson
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Luchadores go head to head in the ring to see who really is The Great Pumpkin!

Cost: Free

Where:
Elote Cafe & Catering
514 S Boston Ave
Tulsa, OK  74103
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Sponsor: Elote Cafe & Catering
Telephone: 918-582-1403
Contact Name: Elote Cafe & Catering
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Seymour, a nerdy worker at a run-down florist is romantically pining for a seemingly unattainable beauty named Audrey, when he discovers an unusual plant that only thrives when it is fed human...

Cost: $15-$25

Where:
Tulsa Performing Arts Center
110 East Second Street
Tulsa, OK  74103
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Sponsor: Tulsa Project Theatre
Telephone: 918-596-7122
Contact Name: Amber Whitlatch
Website »

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No tricks, just treats! Gathering Place is casting a spell for all not-so-scary ghosts and ghouls to make their way to the park for sweets and treats. Meet us on Spooky Street for a kid-friendly,...

Cost: Free

Where:
Gathering Place
2650 S. John Williams Way E.
Tulsa, OK  74114
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Website »

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